Toward the end of the summer, I was seeing a middle-school girl
for a physical. The notes from a clinic visit last spring said she was a good
student but didn’t talk enough in class. So I asked her: Is this still a
problem for you?
I’m
shy, she said. I’m just shy.“Should I have turned to her mother and suggested —
a counselor? An academic evaluation? Should I have probed further? How do you
feel in school, do you have some friends, is anybody bullying you?