1. Lunch Date
It's OK to be a little unconventional. Who says your kids
can't join you on V-Day?
Choose a family-friendly cafe, or pack some lunch and head
to your favorite picnic spot.
While your bub sleeps in the pram or your older kids tear
around with a soccer ball (or busy themselves with your iPhone) steal some
steamy glances with your lover
"Once the
kids are in bed, lay a picnic blanket on the lounge room floor and spread out
some wine"
2. Celebrate Family
Maybe it's time to accept that love has evolved in your
life. It isn't just about the two of you anymore. Celebrating V-Day might need
to become about celebrating the love for your kids as well as your partner.
Instead of focusing on romance decide to enjoy a family
activity that you'll all enjoy together. Be it a trip to the cinema, or popping your bub in a carrier and enjoying an adult bush walk
together.
3. Lounge room picnic
So a seven course degustation at a three hat restaurant
isn't going to happen this year, but that doesn't mean you can't enjoy some
gourmet treats.
Once the kids are in bed, lay a picnic blanket on the lounge
room floor and spread out some wine and food.
In the comfort of your uggies and yoga pants toast to happy
days of parenting together.
Some tea light candles can create a romantic ambiance which
might set the mood for in the bedroom later - if you can stay awake long
enough.
4. PJ Party
V-Day doesn't have to be about romance in the traditional
sense. It can be about enjoy each others company and making the time to be
together.
With the demands of small kids and chronic lack of sleep
it's not uncommon for parents to have waning energy level.
Why not settle for snuggling-up together on the lounge in
your pajamas, or under the covers watching a movie or a TV series you've
downloaded. A bit of cuddling and a shared experience can help you reconnect
and feel loved.
5. Small gestures
When you're in the thick of it with being "Mum's
Taxi", doing groceries, and running off to work it's easy to forget about
your partner's needs.
For V-Day try put some extra thought into doing
something small and thoughtful for your other half.
Make them a hot cup of tea, bring home their favourite
chocolate bar from the supermarket, or do the dishes and put the kids to bed -
even it's their turn.
6. Surprise note
Who doesn't love a cute love note under their pillow? Or a
thoughtful SMS blinking on their mobile phone?
V-Day doesn't have to be about grand gestures, but a couple
of words to let your partner know that they're loved and you appreciate them
goes a long way.
Part of the fun can be hiding a note somewhere and giving
them hints to try and find it. Think, "getting warmer" or
"getting colder".
7. Sleep-in
OK, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that
parents miss their sleep.
If you really want to be in the good books this V-Day offer
your love the chance to have a sleep-in. Keep the kids busy, fed and quiet and
let them enjoy an extra half hour in Snoozeville.
When they wake up feeling rested you'll have earned some
serious brownie points too!
By Motherandbaby
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